While there are many people who believe a cheating partner is not enough reason to end a relationship, this Nigerian lady seems to think otherwise, and from a rather interesting angle too.
Identified as Annie on Instagram, the young lady believes that ladies should let their men cheat in peace. Now, while this may sound like yet another delusional person spitting nonsense on social media, she backed her point with interesting reasons.
According to her, if a man cheats on you the first time, it’s not your fault but if he repeats it continuously, then it’s totally on you. She revealed that women allow this continue because they are quick to forgive without letting the men suffer the consequences of cheating.
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LET MEN CHEAT IN PEACE If there was no consequence for overeating , I would stuff my mouth full with pastries till I pass out. For everything we do in life, there's a consequence for it. That's how balance is kept in this universe. When a man notices that there are no consequences for his actions against you, he acts like a spoilt child and repeats the action over and over again. Consequences are not punishment Consequences are not manipulation tactics Consequences are natural. One thing I've noticed is most of us are afraid to participate in this natural phenomenon out of FEAR. So when a man treats us like crap, rather than set boundaries, and move on to other men who would value us (the right consequence of his action), we engage in low value behaviour by throwing tantrums, demanding to be treated Better, and crying 😑. There are consequences for cheating, and never have I seen any woman allow this process to happen. People will disrespect you because you allow it. They will abuse you because you let them. You are always loved Luchi 😍 #relationshipquotes #relationshipcoach #dearluchi #joroolumofin #relationshipadviceforwomen
In her words: “When a man finds out there are no consequences for his actions against you, he acts like a spoilt child and repeats the action over and over again. Consequences are not punishment, consequences are not manipulation tactics. Consequences are natural.
So when a man treats us like cr*p, rather than set boundaries and move on to a man who would value us, we engage in low value behaviour by throwing tantrums and demanding to be treated better.”
The post has since gone viral on the internet as many people seemed to agree with her. While others felt she made a lot of sense, some however thought she was simply seeking attention on something she clearly had no experience in.