When it comes to relationships between two matured adults, there is little or nothing anyone can say to advice both parties even if one person seems to be going astray.
A young lady, who wished to remain anonymous, has taken to social media to seek for advice on behalf of her Oyinbo friend who seems to be insanely in love with a Nigerian boyfriend. The lady added that her friend has spent a lot on this young man.
According to the Facebook user Amanda Chisom who shared the news on her profile, she further added that this Oyinbo lady has spent about $2,800 (N1 million), on her boyfriend in the space of eight weeks.
The post reads: “Hi Amanda, thanks for being great, thanks for your time, you’re a great woman. Hide my identity please. I have a friend she’s a nice person, lately I had to spend more time with her because of relocation and she was once married but later found out that her ex-husband was married in Africa that was how she broke up the marriage. The problem is this, I notice she’s easily tickled and smile endlessly when a guy, I mean anything looking like a man says hi to her, not minding who he is. Recently, this guy met us in a restaurant, took her number and they started chatting.
I saw she was happy and I encouraged her to go out on a date with him but coming back from that date, she told me that he borrowed 20 dollars to gas up his tank. I was speechless when I heard it, she saw how I felt and she didn’t say any other thing. Yesterday, she told me that she’s feeling charmed, I said how in America again, how would you believe such.
She said since I met this guy I have already spent 2800 dollars on him in a space of 8 weeks, worst I don’t even know where he lives, this friend of mine is a mother, please how do I address this issue, since she opened up to me I feel like I encouraged her to start something with this guy. This guy is a Nigerian and I feel he’s like a brother but my friend doesn’t deserve such person, she’s not Nigerian.”
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